25.08.13 - Fighting with My Wife over Nothing

1. 원문

Last night, I argued with my wife.

We argued about nothing serious, but you know how it is when a husband and a wife argue.

I told her how hard is on me that she never cleans the house.

She always puts everything she uses where she used them the last time.

Then, once I find that, I tell her to put them where they used to be.

Whenever I say that, she twinkles her face, and overreacts.

She actually says nothing, but just lets me recognise she's uncomfortable about what I say.

I don't know what to do.

I don't think I can stand this forever, but she seems like she'll never change.

She just says that there won't be no problem if I get generous about what she does.

I know that can help and be useful, but It's just that I can't.

My understanding is that it's not easy for her to be careful about maintaining the house clean.

Plus, she says she stands everything she doesn't like about me, but I do either.

I don't know what I can do with this. Is the only solution that I just don't bring this up with her?

 

2. 교정

Last night, I had an argument with my wife.

We argued about nothing serious, but you know how it is between a husband and wife.

I told her how hard it is on me that she never keeps the house clean.

She always leaves everything exactly where she used it.

Then, when I notice it, I tell her to put them back where they belong.

Whenever I say that, she makes a face and overreacts.

She doesn't actually say anything, but makes it clear she's uncomfortable with what I said.

I don't know what to do.

I don't think I can put up with this forever, but she doesn't seem like she'll ever change.

She just says that there won't be any problems if I'm more generous about what she does.

I know that could help, but I just can't.

From what I understanding, it's not easy for her to keep the house clean, and she just can't help it.

Plus, she says she puts up with everything I do that she doesn't like, and so do I.

She's not the only one who puts up with everything.

I don't know what I can do about this. Is the only solution to not just bring it up with her?

Even though we argue quite often, we still get along fine, but I want to make things better.